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Living in a flatshare: The bizarre viewings

Flatshare what to look for
We got a new flatmate! I’ve both organized and been to a lot of flat viewings over the years. One thing that always surprises me, is how little time everyone seems to spend looking around in the apartment before deciding if they want it or not. Now, there’s nothing permanent with a flat share and you can always move if it doesn’t work out. But it’s still going to be someone future home, even if it’s temporary for a few months or years.

There’s so many people that hardly steps through the doorway of a room that could possibly be their home. They peek in for a few seconds and then quickly move on to another part of the apartment. They might as a few questions about the rent or the bond, but most of them are pretty quiet and leave the apartment after only 5 minutes.

It’s so weird. I get it if they wouldn’t be very interested in the room, but most people are indeed interested. Most flatshares in London and the travelling community in Australia are already furnished, but yet nobody asks about storage space, if the bed is comfortable or if the neighbors like to throw wild parties in the evenings. Instead, it’s a little bit like playing Russian roulette. It might turn out to be a fantastic accommodation if you’re lucky and if you’re unlucky? Well, then you just move. Or maybe it’s just me that thinks that moving is a hassle and want to live somewhere nice.

I can understand if someone is desperate and perhaps need to move out of their old place in a week or two. A room is always better than no room at all, but not everyone can be that desperate?

I was like that when I first moved from London from Sweden. I was naive and went to viewings, peeked through doorways and didn’t really know what to look for. I was in a new country, had no idea what to expect and I went with my gut feeling. I picked my first apartment in London because the flatmates seemed nice. It wasn’t until after I had moved in that I discovered that the bathroom ceiling was solid black from mold or than one of the other girl’s bedroom window (ground floor) could not be looked properly and anyone could just swing open the window and climb inside.

Jessna

16 Comments

Tee | Rotten One

This is so funny because it’s the total opposite of flatshare viewings in Berlin! It’s quite a long process, and a bit of a pain in the ass. It usually involves meeting all the flatmates and having individual interviews with them one by one, then waiting a few days until you finally hear any feedback (if at all).

P.S. That moldy ceiling must have been a not so sweet sight to look at! x

Tee | Rotten One

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coolchillmomc

That is very surprising indeed. I guess most people want to make sure the people they live with are nice.

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Christie

I had no idea flat sharing was so nonchalant! I would definitely be the person to ask about the bed softness and storage room

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Miranda (Myrabev)

I have lived in a lot of flatshares over the years and I can honestly say I always look in the room and get a feel of it like you said it would be home for a few weeks or years.

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Amanda

You are right…there are many times when I’ve just very quickly looked around a space in order to determine that it WASN’T for me. When I am more intrigued in a place, I will spend a TON of time checking it out.

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Aileen

That’s quite an experience! But I bet now you know better. All of what you’ve gone through has been really bizarre, but nevertheless, for me I really always scrutinize new places that I’ll be living in. I don’t like nasty surprises >_<

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Jeanine

I’m so picky so I couldn’t imagine not even really looking before moving. Solid black mold? That is insane.

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Mary Edwards

That’s so weird to me that most people don’t take the time to really look. I would be looking in every nook and cranny before I decided on a place!

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April @ Everyday Fitness and Nutrition

I’ve never lived in a situation with roommates (other than my family). It seems like it would be a much bigger decision to find a place to live and people to share it with.

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Stephanie Pass

I tend to be very shy around strangers, and when looking for a home and someone is showing it to us, I always feel like I’m intruding. So I speed it up and don’t ask the right questions, lol. Thank goodness I own my own home now.

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CourtneyLynne

Ahhhhhhh… I remember back in the day when I had roommates!!! Honestly I lucked out and always had good roommates!

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Stephanie C.

I tend to have the opposite problem – I’m super picky! I want everything just so…Yikes on the mold situation – that sounds awful as does the ’open window’ thing!

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XmasDolly

OMG What a horrible experience when you moved into that flat. Didn’t the moldy ceiling smell in that room to give you a clue? That’s just the most horrible experience I’ve heard of in moving! I hope you’re doing better now.

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ricci

I am incredibly OCD and would be the creepy potential roommate that would ask a thousand and one questions. HA!!

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Tiany

Yikes, I wonder if this has to do more with age? Not sure, but I would definitely have to look and look some more before moving into any place.

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Jennifer Pritchard

Yikes! I’m sorry that seems like a rough experience moving in there. I’ve always had good roommates and never too much of a horror story with moves luckily.

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